Parenting a child with special needs comes with unique challenges and responsibilities. As parents, we must take on the role of advocate, ensuring that our children receive the support, education, and care they deserve. Special needs parenting advocacy is not just about speaking up—it’s about understanding the system, navigating school policies, and pushing for inclusive environments that cater to all children. In this episode of The Parenting Cipher, Genie Dawkins sits down with Kendra Lendsey, host of The Yo Fly Aunty Podcast, to discuss the real-life struggles and victories of advocating for children with special needs. From tackling school systems to addressing systemic racism and promoting self-care, this conversation provides valuable insights for every parent looking to empower themselves and their child.
Special needs parenting advocacy includes several critical aspects:
By engaging in special needs parenting advocacy, parents can create an environment where their child thrives both academically and socially.
Kendra Lendsey shares her perspective on navigating parenthood as a midlife woman and the importance of embracing this stage as an opportunity for growth. She describes midlife as a "level up, not a liability," emphasizing that experience and wisdom make us stronger advocates for our children. For Black mothers, this is especially crucial, as they often find themselves fighting against stereotypes and systemic challenges in the educational system.
One of the biggest hurdles in special needs parenting advocacy is overcoming the fear of speaking up. Kendra encourages parents to embrace their intuition and knowledge about their children. When dealing with schools, medical professionals, or community services, parents must confidently express their concerns and demand necessary accommodations.
The school system can be challenging to navigate, but parents must remain vigilant and proactive. Advocacy starts with understanding how educational resources are allocated and ensuring that children with special needs receive appropriate support. Kendra emphasizes the importance of requesting psycho-educational testing early, stating that early intervention can make a significant difference in a child’s academic success.
Many Black families face cultural stigma when seeking diagnoses and support for their children. In the past, terms like "slow" or "different" were used instead of recognizing learning disabilities or developmental disorders. However, as awareness grows, more parents are stepping up as advocates. Special needs parenting advocacy is about shifting mindsets and ensuring that children receive the help they need without fear of judgment.
Kendra Lendsey sheds light on the disparities that exist within special education for Black children. Studies show that Black students are disproportionately placed in special education programs and are more likely to receive harsher disciplinary actions. This makes special needs parenting advocacy even more critical for parents of Black children with disabilities.
Advocating for a child with special needs can be emotionally and physically exhausting. Parents must take time to care for themselves to maintain their strength and resilience.
Special needs parenting advocacy is not just about speaking up—it’s about taking informed actions to ensure that children receive the education, care, and opportunities they deserve. Whether it’s pushing for IEP accommodations, addressing systemic racism, or simply standing firm in your knowledge as a parent, advocacy plays a crucial role in shaping a child’s future.
As Genie Dawkins and Kendra Lendsey discuss in this episode of The Parenting Cipher, midlife is an opportunity to embrace advocacy with confidence. The journey may not be easy, but with the right tools, resources, and mindset, parents can become the best advocates for their children.
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